Tips dating iranian man
They say once you go black you never go back...until you go on a Persian excursion. And now that I'm married to a white guy, it's an excursion I won't ever be taking.
Aside from one terrible blind date, I have never dated an Iranian guy- even though I am in fact an Iranian.
My problem is that time and again I meet men who think Oh, she’s easy because she is ‘English’ and they then revert back to marrying Persian girls. I hope that many members of our community write in and share their thoughts as well, and I hope that some of them serve to provide evidence contrary to your assumptions.
Obviously internet dating is a minefield of predatory men who are only after one thing. Are we non Persian girls just for dating or bedding? I am, of course, not saying that your assumptions are incorrect.
There's not a whole lot of boundaries when it comes to Persian in-laws. I mean, their parents picked who they got married to, so why shouldn't they at least have a say in what kind of house their kid buys or what kind of wedding they have or how they raise their grandkids? Speaking of weddings..I ended up with an Iranian guy, then chances are-- his family would be as big as my family. Here's the real number three: I never ran in the Persian circle in high school or college.
This wouldn't be a "my big fat" wedding kind of thing. (Look, I said I would be making massive generalizations here.)3. First of all, I think there were like two other Iranian people at my high school.
I think that there is this perception perpetuated by parents and taught to their children generation after generation – that is based more on ideals than on reality.
The times are changing in ALL cultures and the younger generations across the world are probably becoming more alike than they ever were in the past because of technology, the internet, ease of travel, and so forth.
Whether or not we establish barriers (social, cultural, familial), teenagers will be teenagers and they will do what they want to do, often without our knowledge.(Note: In case you were wondering, Persian and Iranian are in fact the same thing).I'm not sure what prevented me from ever dating inside my own race.I would be interested in your thoughts as I am getting quite disheartened at the attitudes. I think, very unfortunately, that there are some cultural stereotypes (in both directions! So good, let’s get these all out in the open so that we can talk about them.I, too, have heard many times from Iranian men (or men from any of the middle-eastern cultures for that matter) that they are happy to date American or non-Iranian women, but that they would never marry one.