Online dating behavior
I think for a second, and then I write equal amounts (70) next to both hotness and kindness, then 40 next to income and 20 next to fidelity.“Oh wow,” he says.“What? Usually women allocate more to fidelity and less to physical attractiveness.
Maybe you think fidelity is something people can cultivate over time?
As one columnist who used the service put it, “There’s a short bio, age, and mutual friends listed, but who’s really paying attention to that stuff when your Tinder flame is wearing next to nothing on the beach?
”Then there’s Hinge, which uses a similar interface, but is backed by recommendations from the user’s “social graph,” such as their school or career field.
This is not productive for yourself, nor does it make you interesting to the people you are meeting. Making multiple superficial connections like this is not productive, nor is it financially beneficial.
When you are dating so many women to the point you start lying to friends about who you are with because you are embarrassed you date so much, it’s time to hit the brakes.
Online dating is nothing to be ashamed of when used properly.
There is never a need to cover up your dating habits.
As great as online dating can be, there is also something mentally unhealthy about the process.
Unleashing attractive men into a forum where they arrange an endless stream of dates is like unleashing a little kid into a candy store and telling him he can eat whatever he wants.