On line dating edicate
Expecting a Cameron Diaz look-alike, he was shocked to meet a morbidly obese woman in a moo-moo. On the other hand, we’ve dated men who were relieved and delighted that we simply looked like our pictures.(And believe us, we’re not Cameron.) They were grateful enough to stay through the crème brulée.In the flesh, he could have passed for Dracula, with a mouthful of rotted, brown, pointy fangs. Remember, real men lose their hair and grow love handles, yet if you met them in person, you just might find them charming.Besides, if you’re anything like us, you probably don’t look that much like Angelina.On the other hand, be prepared to spend hours and hours learning how to sort the wheat from the chaff.Here’s a crash course on the dos and don'ts of cyberdating.DON’T naively assume that his photo is as up-to-date and accurate as yours.We accepted a date with a guy whose headshot looked perfectly human, even normal. For instance: DON’T get taken in by corny, overused come-on lines like, “Looking to spoil the lady of my dreams with flowers and candlelit dinners.” And beware of perfect strangers who promise to “snuggle with you in front of the fireplace” and “enjoy sunset strolls on the beach.” These guys have one thing on their minds. It’s all too easy to scroll through Internet profiles, selecting the Brad Pitt look-alikes and bypassing the rest.
Our friend fell for that ploy on a first date, and when she offered her hand as he was leaving, he suddenly French-kissed her, slobbering all over her face. DON’T behave like a kid in a candy store full of online temptations.
It is best to simply move on, rather than pestering someone who clearly isn't interested.
Third on the list of online dating etiquette rules, is respecting other member's privacy.
DO move the conversation along from email to cell phone.
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