It helps you to see them as a person,who was once small and powerless just like you. We often get caught up in the hype surrounding a person – they’re the CEO of a huge corporation, they’re a celebrity..whatever it is, it can lead us to thoughts that don’t assist us.
We automatically put ourselves on the bottom end of the seesaw.
The feeling of intimidation can make you mentally choke, leaving you at a loss for words that makes you feel even worse.
You don't have to come up with a script you'll repeat word for word, especially because you have to respond naturally to whatever the other person says back.
We can all be regressed to feeling like that little kid again depending on how someone behaves with us. Intimidating people are often all bravado and have very little to back it up with.
Have you ever been around your parents or an adult that knew you as a child and suddenly realised that you have changed your behaviour? Acting sheepish and childlike amongst adults from our childhood is quite common. They are used to others being intimidated and accepting their behaviour.
You can put an end to it starting today, and you don't need to sacrifice your pride or decorum to do it.
They are giving you behavioural cues that you can use to your advantage.In order to appeal the child in another adult, it is important to act like an adult dealing with a difficult child. When you approach them with curiosity it takes them by surprise and they often begin to unravel when they are asked to explain themselves in more detail.Stick to the facts and take the dignified path always. Never be confrontational or belittling with intimidating people. Ironically, many intimidating people have learned this behaviour due to feeling powerless and unheard as children.She went on to explain that these negative behaviours were projections of inner misery and chaos.Ever since then, when I meet someone who spews out anger and negativity, it offers me a glimpse of how awful their internal experience of the world is.